Have you ever been out to dinner or waiting at a checkout line and someone’s poor behavior distracted you? Perhaps it was a woman speaking loudly on a cellphone about a private matter, or a man rudely pushing past you to exit a building. Such instances are certainly off-putting.

Below are some great points to help make sure you “let your light so shine” (Matt. 5:16) through your behavior in public.

• Give up your seat: If someone is pregnant, on crutches, or has any type of physical malady, you should offer him or her your chair. It is also proper etiquette to stand up for those who are older than you and allow them to take your seat. This principle is in line with Leviticus 19, which states, “You shall rise up before the hoary head, and honor the face of the old man…” (vs. 32).
• Turn off your cellphone ringer: When on a bus or indoors, a loud cellphone ring or a long phone conversation can be obtrusive to others. If you must make a call, step into a private area so your conversation is not heard by everyone. Keep it brief and to the point if you are unable to step away.
• Open doors for others: Be aware of others around you when walking through doors. If they are close by, wait and hold the door for them. In this hustle-and-bustle world, your effort will surely be a positive influence.
• Keep your voice down: In a room filled with people, a boisterous laugh or story is sure to negatively draw attention to yourself. Realize that such behavior is disruptive, especially if a person is feeling ill or having a stressful day.
• Sit properly: Slouching or sprawling out on a seat is an eyesore. Instead, sit up straight. If you are a woman, it is much more ladylike to keep your knees together or legs crossed. An easy way to check your posture while sitting is to simply roll your shoulders up and behind you, and pull your head back to align your ears with your shoulders.

Next time you are in public, be aware that others notice your behavior. Following the rules of etiquette will help your light shine!